I wonder if end-of-year reflections are a modern invention or if people have sat down and tallied up their accomplishments and written out their goals for the next year as long as there have been calendars? Was it a religious duty initially, centered around spiritual growth, or has it always been a secular, ambition-driven measurement for self-improvement?
Maybe it also gives people in the Northern Hemisphere some motivation to make it through the cold, dark months of January and February (personally, my least-favorite time of year).
I have seen enough years pass to know that there is a certain amount of Accomplishment, Failure, Routine, and the Unexpected in any year such that resolutions are … well, they’re simply whatever they mean to the individual … no real indication of whether life is going to go well or poorly in the next year, although it seems that we make resolutions each year in order to propel our lives in a positive direction.
It’s not always from trying or the lack of it that we succeed or fail at our plans, and our own schemes are the biggest portion of life under our direct control.
Here are some things that I consider accomplishments for 2006:
I bought my first house with three of my friends in July. This is a big achievement for me financially and socially. My goal a few years back was to be a homeowner by age 35, so this has happened earlier than I expected.
I paid off a couple of credit cards that had been opened back when I was in grad school (debt is a big, big pain to repay, but so easy to rack up when you’re a poor student).
I have been *working on* my relationships with various people: friends, family, co-workers, etc. and have made at least one or two new friends this year. I hope to do a better job with this next year, but some progress has been made.
My income has been steadily rising, but job satisfaction could be better. Again, something to work on in 2007.
There have been big changes in people’s lives this past year:
PhysOrg’s mom has been in good health since her surgery last January, maybe the most amazing Good Thing that happened this year.
Friends’ relationships have changed and branched out in different ways than we anticipated a year ago.
Friends have gotten engaged and/or married in the past year.
Friends and acquaintances have lost loved ones, suffered grief, and dealt with illness in their families.
Friends have finished degrees, changed jobs, lost jobs, and moved.
It has been one standard human year with the usual mix of good and bad. It may be more of a Year to Remember for some and a Year to Fast-Forward Through for others, but we’re all leaving it a little different than we were last January 1st.
Best wishes to all!